We plan our goals for years even we don’t know what is going to be happened even after a minute. We get stressed even
depressed by pondering over those plans for the futures that we prepare for us but they don’t work out the way we want them to. We always forget that we do not have power over things. We often forget we have no authority even on our heartbeats. We can face a tragic accident in a second or we can experience a bundle of joyful moments the next minute– WE REALLY DON’T KNOW!!!
Have you ever been thought that Why do we stress? Why do we think for all those situations in which we have no
control??
The basic reason for all this anxiety, stress and depression is that “We start thinking that WE CAN CONTROL, even though the reality is that WE CANNOT.
Have we ever wondered and laughed on the plans that we formulate and they didn’t come off as we expect them to be?? No, we don’t. In fact we feel distressed, de-motivated and so many other negative thoughts come into our mind.
Have we ever speculated that why this all happened to us? Why don’t we think there is SOMEONE out there who is WATCHING to us, LISTENING whatever we are saying, even HE KNOWS what we think
“ALLAH IS CLOSER FROM OUR JUGULAR VEIN” we have been reading it since our CHILDHOOD but the most miserable truth is WE DO NOT HAVE COMPLETE FAITH ON IT. The biggest tragedy of our life is, we don’t have enough TRUST on HIM. We wonder why we aren’t getting a desirable job, promotion, relation in our life. We wonder age is passing by but we aren’t attaining the GOAL what we have identified for us. Some of us don’t even know what their goal is. The point is, WE HAVE NO IDEA, what is the BEST time for us to get a PARTICULAR desirable thing whether it is a job, success or a relationship. One of the biggest problems that we face is the pressure that is created on our subconscious mind by our beloved family members (unintentionally) or even by our surroundings or by our society.
Let’s take a few examples: a girl turned 25 – and the aunties of our huge families starts seeking out the problems that why the girl isn’t getting married? THERE IS A SPECIFIC AGE OF DOING SOMETHING. SHE MUST BE LIKING SOMEONE. That kind of comments we hear sometimes. Similarly a boy crossed 25 and he didn’t get a white collar job this will also be considered as a problem. At this point uncles don’t refrain themselves to pass comments. They come along with ” WHEN I WAS AT YOUR AGE I HAVE ACHIEVED XYZ AND JUST LOOK AT MR. ABC’s son HOW SUCCESSFUL HE IS.”
The point is who has specified the limit of getting married or getting a particular job? These uncles and aunties don’t ever think that these comments could have shattered the self-confidence of a person. In that case my sincere advice to the fellows is “Our peace of mind should be the top most priority. Please know and understand that WE ARE NOT THE WRITER OF OUR FORTUNE!! It has already been written EVEN BEFORE WHEN WE WERE BORN!!!
We have no control over it. We should do the best of our efforts to get the things done our way but if still doesn’t appear the same way, that’s the time to let the thing happens the way they are meant to be. Because from this point we need to comprehend that
THERE IS SOMEONE WHO HAS POWER OVER EVERYTHING IN THIS UNIVERSE. We should remember that “WE PLAN AND
HE PLANS, AND HE IS THE BEST OF THE PLANNERS”.
So just LET GO AND BREATHE!! WAIT FOR THE BEST TIME TO COME!! THE TIME WHICH IS SPECIFIED BY YOUR CREATOR NOT BY THE SOCIETY OR ANYONE ELSE!! 🙂
Have you ever been thought that Why do we stress? Why do we think for all those situations in which we have no
control??
The basic reason for all this anxiety, stress and depression is that “We start thinking that WE CAN CONTROL, even though the reality is that WE CANNOT.
Have we ever wondered and laughed on the plans that we formulate and they didn’t come off as we expect them to be?? No, we don’t. In fact we feel distressed, de-motivated and so many other negative thoughts come into our mind.
Have we ever speculated that why this all happened to us? Why don’t we think there is SOMEONE out there who is WATCHING to us, LISTENING whatever we are saying, even HE KNOWS what we think
Let’s take a few examples: a girl turned 25 – and the aunties of our huge families starts seeking out the problems that why the girl isn’t getting married? THERE IS A SPECIFIC AGE OF DOING SOMETHING. SHE MUST BE LIKING SOMEONE. That kind of comments we hear sometimes. Similarly a boy crossed 25 and he didn’t get a white collar job this will also be considered as a problem. At this point uncles don’t refrain themselves to pass comments. They come along with ” WHEN I WAS AT YOUR AGE I HAVE ACHIEVED XYZ AND JUST LOOK AT MR. ABC’s son HOW SUCCESSFUL HE IS.”
The point is who has specified the limit of getting married or getting a particular job? These uncles and aunties don’t ever think that these comments could have shattered the self-confidence of a person. In that case my sincere advice to the fellows is “Our peace of mind should be the top most priority. Please know and understand that WE ARE NOT THE WRITER OF OUR FORTUNE!! It has already been written EVEN BEFORE WHEN WE WERE BORN!!!
We have no control over it. We should do the best of our efforts to get the things done our way but if still doesn’t appear the same way, that’s the time to let the thing happens the way they are meant to be. Because from this point we need to comprehend that
THERE IS SOMEONE WHO HAS POWER OVER EVERYTHING IN THIS UNIVERSE. We should remember that “WE PLAN AND
HE PLANS, AND HE IS THE BEST OF THE PLANNERS”.
So just LET GO AND BREATHE!! WAIT FOR THE BEST TIME TO COME!! THE TIME WHICH IS SPECIFIED BY YOUR CREATOR NOT BY THE SOCIETY OR ANYONE ELSE!! 🙂
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