These days I am going through so many posts related to relationships where young girls seem confused about the boys in whom they are interested? This post is dedicated to those girls specifically.
Girls! First of all, let me clear one thing the concept of being in an unofficial relationship before marriage is wrong. Please don’t think that I am a narrow-minded person. But to be very honest, you should know these UNOFFICIAL RELATIONSHIPS may cost you your dignity if went WRONG. We always talk about our culture. But to be honest and blatantly true the only culture to be followed for every Muslim is the culture specified by ISLAM.
Please note, Islam gives you permission of LIKING someone not LOVE before marriage. There is a whole lot of difference between both terms. When you like someone or someone likes you the first thing that should come into your mind is to ask your heart whether to accept it or not – the second thing should be clearly asking the person to send a marriage proposal to you. Say to them clearly. Don’t think at all that this is too early to be asked. If you are in a relationship with someone that means that you want to get married. NO SENSIBLE GIRL WANTS TO TIME PASS!
Do not let those boys take advantage of your innocence. The person, who is serious to you, will never I REPEAT WILL NEVER put you in a confusing position. It does not only save your dignity but saves you from the emotional breakdown that every girl feels when the boy deceives them and due to that trauma you start questioning your self-worth.
Getting impressed by westernization, we are on the verge we almost forgetting who we are? And who do we belong to? You as a WOMEN are the most precious jewel of ISLAM which is why these conditions are supposed to be imposed in order to protect you, your heart, and your dignity. But unfortunately, we don’t think like that.
Ask yourself once to maintain that so-called relationship how many times you disobeyed ALLAH. For God's sake open your eyes and make your standards accordingly. After that, if the particular person starts ignoring you then you should clearly know where you actually stand.
To make a HUMAN happy DO NOT DISOBEY ALLAH!!
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